Delete them from fb or make them jealous!
Ok so this is super petty and quite unlike me. Usually I don't care about what other people say or their opinions and I certainly don't get riled up about social media. I have a fb becuase I live in the US and allllll my fam live in England, it's the easiest way to keep in contact and I very barely post anything anyways, if I do it's always positive happy things (99% usually photos) just to share with my family. So here's the thing... I have a few 'friends' used to be best friends in high school but they are kind of bitchy/cliquey and when I met my bf/moved away/got married they had strong opinions about it and I just broke ties with them. Well in the last 2 years or so we reconnected on fb.. Wouldn't call them friends still but I am civil and like to be a bit nosy about their lives but nothing major. Anyways I am pregnant, and after posting an announcement on fb to share my fam I started to see these 'friends' tag each other in memes or share photos relating to people you know being pregnant (I'm young 21, I am married and live with my hubby where as they are still in college and immature) so they are kind of passive aggressive memes that I know they are directed at me and iv seen them make some comments to each other about being young and pregnant and what not - I don't know if their intention is for me to see it or if they are even directing it to me or being malicious but knowing them it makes me want to delete them
Completely from fb and block them so they can't see anything of my life at all since obviously their comments and such is bothering me ... This is obviously the mature thing to do. However a little part of me wants to keep them as friends and post even more not just about my pregnancy and baby but just about my life in general and make it look like the BEST life ever and make them jealous that even tho I'm only 21 and with a baby in still going on these fancy vacations and still going out to these resteraunts and what not. I come from a small dowdy little town in England which is where they all still live and I now live in California - to me Cali is not great like how you see In the movies but they don't need to know that - I know they crave to vacation here and make a big deal about the small things That are normal to me now like certain resteraunts and shops and I can make it look amazing I can go and take beautiful pics at the beach, and pics at Disneyland and just make my life look perfect. (Like I said I barely post anything especially personal and about my life just a few pics to share with family!) but I'm feeling super immature and just want to make these girls jealous. I know I know it's super immature and petty and really truly it is outbid character for me to be like this usually I would of just deleted them! What should I do??
Edit; I also want to point out that they have been very malicious and immature to me in the past and have made strong comments about my relationship and my life and singled memoir in high school they were like the friends that aren't actually friends! They were never supportive and hated the fact that I was happy! We were a big group and when another girl (who partook in bullying me too) got a serious fb they turned around and did the same thing to her)
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