Baby shower rant!!

I'm so annoyed that I don't even know where to start! First the host didn't do anything and I ended up planning the whole thing from A to Z. Then out of 27 people that RSVP only 10 people showed up, so we were total of 13 including the house owner, the hostess and my self. Honestly it's not about gifts at all, as I had already got most of stuff. What bothers me is that they didn't even bother to text or call and apologize for no showing up. What's wrong with people???? I spent so much money on food and dessert and ended up with huge leftovers that I don't even know what to do with 😩😢. Oh well lesson learned, first and last baby shower or party for me. Will never host one again!!! Sorry for the long Post, but needed to get this out of my system.