So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6years on and off I'm 23 and his 25 we now live with each other it's been 5months that we been living together we always get into fights about money he conqsentely tells me to put my money into his bank account but I feel like if I do all he Gona do is argue with me on why I buy the things I buy I feel like his Gona have a whole lot of control over me. he put so many excuse on why he doesn't want to get married with me how he wants to save up and other dum stuff sometimes I feel like I'm waisting my time and effort onto him I don't know what to do anymore.everyday I'm starting to care less and less for him I don't feel appreciated from him I do so much and all I get is nothing a fake smpathy