Why me?! I can't anymore.

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I give up.... I can't do this anymore....
3rd time in less than a year
August- miscarriage
December- blighted ovum
Scan today- blighted ovum again.....

Why?  What am I doing wrong?  What's wrong with me?! The only option I see is to just give up; we have our son and I'm happy with that....

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That's how I felt. Our son is 8 and we've tried since he was 3.... same here, misscarry or bad ovums (thats what I called them). I told hubby I was done...to get fixed and leave me alone and maybe we'll get appropriate adoption.I think that sometimes giving up trying works better then trying. And I say that because I got a surprise for my birthday, waking up with the worst case of heart burn I'd ever had, I knew then it happened again and was scared shitless until recently and I'm now 23 weeks. Just don't ever loose hope, without hope were all just...lost.

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🙁 don't ever give up.
 Things work out when they are suppose to. I know that sound cliche but it's true. Rooting for you!!!

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I can't imagine the pain you're in. I don't have any wise words but wanted to give you my condolences. I'm so sorry.

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I'm so sorry your going through this. I had a chemical pregnancy in December and a MC in February at 7 weeks. I was heartbroken and felt like giving up too. I told my husband I would try one more time... I'm currently 7w 4d with twins. It's so incredibly hard to move forward, but my thought was "it will hurt me more to never conceive again than it will to experience these losses." Wishing you the best!

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Have you had your progesterone levels monitored? I had a missed miscarriage last summer, my Dr discovered my progesterone was really low early in my current pregnancy and said it might not be viable, nothing seen on 6 week ultrasound.  He put me on progesterone kind of as a courtesy saying research doesn't support it, but I believe the progesterone supplement saved my pregnancy. Sorry you're going through this, it absolutely sucks :(

Why me?! I can't anymore.

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