Comforting others....

Joy
Does anyone else ever feel like you have to comfort other family members  about your infertility issues??? In our situation it's my MIL. Every time we have news somehow we end up having to comfort her. She also ends up not thinking before she speaks and ends up hurting my feelings as well. I know she means well and she wants the best but seriously think before you speak and don't say things like "is that procedure going to be worth it?" I've made the decision to just let my husband deal with his mother because it's just too painful for me. Anyone have advice for dealing with family members feelings while maintaining your own mental health???