I only want his money!

Quantya
My husband overcompensates with his wallet in exchange for his time. I keep talking to him about the fact that I want more of his time and thoughtfulness I wanna go on dates and take trips with my husband. He acts as if everything I'm saying is more than he's willing to provide to me at this point. I've been with him since I was 15. Been married for 2 years. I really want it to work and for us both to be happy together but he needs to realize I'm a grown up and not still a 15 year old girl who just wants to lay around with him every time we're together. I really feel like he's putting the least possible effort into our relationship and I just want him to compromise and do things I like to do every now and then. I've said all I know to say. Im lost. We have 4 children and a 5th on the way. I feel like we don't know one another outside of our children and that he hasn't realized I'm a grown woman now so quite naturally I want more for my relationship and for myself. He thinks I should be happy because he gives me whatever I ask for materialistically and provides for us. What should I do? Am I being selfish? Should I just be happy already? What's wrong with me? 😒