Virginity is a social construct. Nobody should judge or shame you whether you have or haven't.

What's embarrassing was me losing it at a young age.😐

18, still a virgin ✌ May 2017 is when I'll loose it to my husband

Never be ashamed of how old you are when you lose your virginity. People these days look at sex as no big deal, but almost everyone remembers their first time and who they lost it to. It doesn't matter if you're 16 or 36, it's nothing to be ashamed of!

Tina fey lost hers at 24! It's nice to see women wait. Definatly not embarrassing. Lost mine at 15, defiantly feel somewhat embarrassed for that. Each year goes by it feels like that was just too young.

Nothing to be proud of or ashamed of. Just a fact.

I wouldn't say embarrassing but if you made it to the age of like 40-50 and have never been intimate with anyone I would think that was kinda sad, not in the sense that "oh you haven't gotten any" but sad because they've never known what it was like to experience that bond with someone.

Since virginity is a social construct, that actually holds no meaning at about to shame and demean women.. No there is no age where it becomes embarrassing.

Not embarrassing but if someone was say 40 I would feel a little sorry for them that they are missing out whether it's 'just sex' or finding the one. But then I would also think that they made that decision so must be happy with it, it's their choice what they do

Like Hannah Montana said: "Life is what you make it" ;) nothing is really awkward or embarrassing unless you make it! If you're s virgin, great! Keep it that way for as long as YOU want :) it's your body and your virginity and there's no taking it back so it's all about when you are ready.

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Is there an age when it's embarrassing to be a virgin?

Blueswan • Sat, May 28 • 🏳️‍🌈 (Pan/demi, she/they) A smart feminist who writes, sews, cooks, etc. kundalini/Sikh follower, and hopefully successful college student. ADHD/anxiety

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