To be honest!

Idk but I don't wanna be those mothers but I think it's about time it's been over 4 years & my sons father comes in & out of his life & I want to stop that he can go months without seeing him why should I let him on only his birthdays or when he's in a fight with his other baby mother!! I made a decision until my sons 18 he can look for him other than that I'm denying him the visits ... & don't bag me on this & that whatever I get he's his father but no one knows what I've been through with him because of our son which is MY SON since I do do have full custody !! As a mother I've always felt my son meant nothing but a mistake to him 
My son is 5 now . For those asking