My husband hates my son :(

My husband always compares the love I have for my son to him. He is 14yrs old. He is my only child his dad and i split when he was 2 but he is extremly active in his life. Im ttc #2 with my husband. We been together since then. But all the time its something negative about my son. Why do i fix his plate? Why do i give him money? Why do take him places? I feel like he wants my son to grow up to fast. He pushing him out of the,way. I'm so uncomfortable and I talk to him about it but he gets so angry. I need help.