High soft cervix with brown spotting

V • After 14 months of struggle, had baby girl in 10/2015! So blessed...
Hi all, I'm on cycle 4 of clomid, 13dpo, and cd29. I've had 2 days of very mild brown spotting and noticed my cervix seems to be high and soft (can't tell if it's open or closed). My DH is out of town and I promised I wouldn't test without him. Anyone who got a bfp with these symptoms? Or any suggestions?