If you have been trying to conceive for any length of time, especially years, how do you take it when someone says if it's meant to be, it will be. I just recently heard that comment directed towards me. And I don't know how to respond or feel. Yes I have a soon-to-be 12 year old. And we have soon-to-be nine-year-old twins. However they are all Miracle babies. I saw her with ectopic pregnancies, miscarriages, and my twins were born at 29 weeks which caused my daughter to have Mild-moderate spastic diplegic cerebral palsy. Anyhow we didn't think we would have any more kids. I almost got my tubes tied. Butt 5 years ago I got the copper hormone free IUD. We just had it removed 4 months ago. And started our journey with TTC. Its only been 3-4 cycles. In the past i got pregnant first cycle, first try. So this is different for us,even tho it hasn't been years like many of you are going through.

****however ***** my issue is that when I told a few close ppl that we were out this month, many said, "if it's meant to be it'll happen " or.... "it must not be meant to be or youd be pregnant" and "everything happens for a reason"

.........ehhh...... I don't even know how to respond. I know i don't HAVE TO respond. But... I mean, I don't know... my emotions are everywhere. How would you feel if you were told these things??? As i know most of you have had the same or similair remarks.What would you think? I mean... "if it's meant to be,it'll be"

I HATE THAT!!!!!!!!