Help. My husband and I have been married for 5 years now. Back in November/December I became close to a guy. Emotionally close nothing physical. Then in February I had told my husband about it. We haven't been close. I have been trying to be honest with him ever since. Now he tells me this girl that he hasn't spoken to in years. She had been taking to him on Facebook messager ands now she is inviting him to her child birthday party. I don't understand. I feel like now my husband is going to leave me because of this chick. I don't know her very well but I am now feeling like my husband is doing this to get back me or something. What do you think?