Should I be upset?

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Should I be upset that he told me I was over reacting? I'm not sure what to think. I'm just a wreak right now.

Elanastasha/Lana is our unborn daughter and this is between me and my fiancé.

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I honestly think you need to talk to someone. You sound very depressed and emotional. There's no reason to be upset with his response.

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His response is sweet. Don't be upset by it. He's trying to calm your fears. I would suggest seeing a therapist. Sometimes depression can creep up on you when you don't expect it.

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Definitely shouldn't be upset. I get feeling self-conscious, but you have to trust him and his love for you and not keep pushing him away. Like others have said, you might need some counseling. Let him know you love him, but more than that, let him know that you trust his love for you. He needs that just as much as you need to feel loved.

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Your going to loose him if your acting like that every day. He keeps telling you how he feels but your not comprehending it or something. Chill out. I know I cleaned my house my whole pregnancy. Of course I had to take breaks bc of my feet swelling but your not handicapped your just pregnant.

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You need to calm down. If you keep acting like that you're going to drive him away. I honestly think you need to see a professional as well.

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He didn't just say ur over reacting. He coupled that with reassurance and care. Relax

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You told him how you feel, and he told you how he feels. I would drop it or you could essentially drive him away. You are hormonal.

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He seemed to be genuine in his response...hormones are efffing ridiculous... I went thru the same thing with my bf...it's tough and its a very overpowering feeling...find someone to confide in...besides your man. A close friend, mom, or a counslor. It really helps getting those emotions out without judgement...

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No you shouldn't be upset because you are valid in how you feel (what you said texting that) although you are still over reacting and fun news flash...it's what pregnant woman can do time to time. Please relax, you body is going through so much and constantly working and don't put all the stress onto him with it. Some yes, but not constant on it. Just put yourself in his shoes, men sometimes seem to get forgotten with how stressful and tiring it can be for them also and not just the pregnant woman. When you're tired and stressed, lean on him and ask him to hold you. When you need to rest, kiss him and go rest. When you are emotional and just feeling overwhelmed, remember that HE is your other half and there for you. The body image of yourself is coming from your own thoughts not his, please don't blame him for it and it's natural to feel that way. Third pregnancy and on baby 3 and first with my SO together. I've had a horrible ex who was abusive in my past preg time. This time around I see just how supportive and lucky I am right now. He's not your enemy he's on your team and from his response...he loves you.

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You sound like you're suffering from anxiety and/or depression. Talk to someone girl!

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