Husband isn't respecting my wishes

Sa

Sa
We recently found out I'm pregnant and I said I only wanted to tell parents til 12 weeks. I haven't even had a scan to check for a heart beat and won't for another 2 weeks when I'm around 8weeks. He's already blabbed it to 3 people at work and now his mother who is pissed about us having a baby is demanding he tell his half sister that isn't in our lives. Her and her husband don't like or want kids yet his mom still is demanding we tell her. He's not respecting my feelings on this nor is the wicked mother in law and I don't know how else to explain to him that I'm terrified of something happening and I don't want everyone in the world knowing. We see his sister 1-2 times a year only for holidays so I don't see why she should be obligated to know. Am I wrong since this is his sister even though he has nothing to do with her because he isnt fond of her?
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Co

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U just need to be very firm bout ur wishes. He should respect ur feelings, now look at all the craziness because he hasn't. 

An

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I do understand. My husband got so damn excited he told his uncle n best friend whom he works with after I told him no one can know until we hear the heart beat because idk who will blab an then if something happened I'd have to go back an tell everyone. After telling those two people he didn't tell anyone else. My mom on the other hand couldn't keep her mouth shut an told all of my immediate family -__- quite frankly it's annoying but from this point on it's in your hands. Put your foot down an tell them how you feel

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Annelise • Nov 21, 2014
Hope you have a healthy an for the most part happy pregnancy(:

An

Annelise • Nov 21, 2014
It sucks when you can't get people to respect your wishes. She's selfish to do that. I wish you the best of luck. An I

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Sa • Nov 21, 2014
I expected my mom to do the same with her coworkers but so far so good. I did discuss it more with him and he apologized but I think now that we told his mother no she will go behind our backs and tell everyone anyways

El

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He's excited. Can you blame him? It's better than someone who denies and never tells anyone that they have a kid /: yes, he should have respected your wishes, but he is excited. 

Sa

Sa • Nov 21, 2014
I fully get he's excited so am i and its very hard to not tell a lot of people but I also don't want his mother trying to dictate what we do with our baby when she made it clear she wants nothing to do with it.

Mi

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I think you're right and he Should understand you. I think he's just happy and so he told few people but you should Talk to him again about your fears. But now that few people know you should be prepared more people would find out. It's always like that with any kind of news! Don't worry and just think of yourself and your baby! Good luck ☺️

Sa

Sa • Nov 21, 2014
thanks. and I know, nobody can keep a secret anymore.