So I'm a 25 year old bisexual female married to a heterosexual male, and a lesbian gf. Most of my and my husband's family are supportive. My grandmother however seems to not be supportive after marrying her current husband.

Is there a way to tell her that it hurts she isn't supportive like she use to be?

Yes my husband and gf know about each other. My husband will make jokes if I'm talking with my gf like, "are you 2 behaving?" Or "how's my wife's wifey?" She will ask how the kids are, our kids adore her. She helped us pick the name for our first son and our current little guy that we are waiting to come.

Hoping I can make some friends that understand or support our relationship. I know quite a few probably won't. But to quote my gf. "If you don't like it don't comment."