Sooo I was just thinking and for the longest all I ever told my SO was that I didn't want a babyshower cuz the money he will spend on the baby shower would be better to just go out and buy stuff ...but his friends talked him into havn the baby shower anyways soo I guess I'm having one ....did anyone else feel this way like why waste money on the baby shower when you don't know who will go ...so just better off buying things ?!