Ok ladies no judging please

But what's your opinion on having the membrane sweep if you was offered to have it just over 40weeks??

I've been offered to have it next week and I'm not sure if I should.

My LO is measuring slightly in front and for the passed 2 weeks it's felt like he literally has NO space what so ever. Hurts to lie down. His movements are still noticeable but have calmed alot. I'm 3/5 engaged

My SO says not to get the sweep as it'll leave me open for infection but I can't help think "but you're not the one carrying him and getting 3hours max sleep a night"

I know he wants everything natural to happen and wants what's best for our son but I dunno if it's worth taking the risk for my sake and our sons sake.

Am I cruel leaving him if he's got no room left or what??

Tell me your thoughts please