My boyfriend encourages me to do what is best for myself he's always putting me before himself and I don't know if if I want to be here for as long as my aunt wants me to. I really love this boy what is like the greatest passion in my heart I don't feel butterflies I feel like the butterfly effect the fact that people say it's just a bunch of bullcrap to be honest. I call him everyday on the phone after he gets off of work. He knows I don't want to be up here but he wants but he what's best for me. I really think God sent him to me because I've been going through a lot of my mind right now and a lot that's been going on with my family mostly negative stuff right now. He tells me that I should be able to follow my heart instead of listening to the negativity of other people I just don't know how else to make this long distance relationship work. We could always meet at Macon Georgia and get a hotel that's $75 so I can see him and he can see me. Right now with all this I really appreciate this boy bringing positive positivity into my life right now I really needed it he's always pushing me forward and putting me before himself. If anybody else has it long distance relationships please send me some advice my way would be greatly appreciated.