Mother in law

I am so tired of feeling like I have to compete with my mother in law my husband tells her every little detail about our life and when I ask him not to share details about specific things for example the amount we make and what houses cost that were looking at because they are very judgey and negatively opinionated so tonight she asks and I remind him with a look that we agreed not to share those details so she gets all pissed off and is like "can't you make your own decisions on what you tell us" she gets super defensive and starts freaking out saying "i have to go I just have to go" I'm so sick of having to protect her feelings what about mine?