I wanted to reply to my original post, but id like to remain anonymous.

I was a little shocked at how many people jumped to rape and molestation, but understood the perspective. I guess when it comes to knowing my dh, it just never felt that way. It just seemed to sinister for me, having dealing with it personally.

I did address the issue, light heartily, and it really was a calm thing. We really just wound up laughing and making jokes, but i did get my point across. I discovered that alot of why dh does what he does, is due to alot of mixed signals on my part. I am a REALLY heavy sleeper. And i love when dh touches me or snuggles.

He explained that he doesn't just jump to playing with my butt. Hell snuggle, rub my back etc... causing me t to moan or make noises lol - therefore, he thinks i am awake lmao (this sounds like bs i know, but believe me when i say is 98% legit) So by the time he gets back there, he thinks I'm awake and ready to get it on.

I told him I'm not really awake. Or if I am, im certainly not alert enough and that he needs to wait to go underneath the clothes until my eyes are open haha Followed by calling him a "Creepo" lol He understood and agreed.

I did address the Google search. I asked him if there was something he wanted to do, that we havent done, and he said no. Just wants to do what weve done again. I asked him why he Googled and he said that after i had shot him down, he was sitting outside smoking a cigarette and pretty much just Googled out of boredom or curiousity as to what would pull up. (Which i believe)

I called him creepy and said if he ever woke up to me doing that to him, id prob wind up w a broken nose hahaha - so he understood. I told him OPEN EYES are the key lol