What's wrong with people?

Question

What makes people not thinking for a second while giving the worst comments ever..? Like conversation with at least 20 people so far went this way:
- When is your due date?
- September 7
- Oooh poor baby it is going to be really hard for you because summer is comming.

Why? Why is everyone has to tell that? Why?!

I have summer of pregnancy in front of me, I'm really unbelievably happy about my pregnancy, can they just let me be happy? Why is it soooo important for everyone to make comment like that?

Also all this people telling my husband that his life is going to be worse now that he is married :( In front of me... With no shame. My God. Why? Why?!

THE BIG QUESTION - Should I be rude with comments like that?

Answer

I think some people are talking about the heat because I've heard from moms that you get extra hot and they want to express sympathy. They don't mean anything mean by it.
But when they're obviously being rude... Well, fuck them. You don't have time for that! You're happy and growing an entire human so why should you care?

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I'm due in September too and have had TONS of people comment on how hard the summer will be. Most are moms who also has August - September babies and want to commiserate on how they went through it too. I usually just laugh and say yes it's super hot out, I'm really glad for my A/C!!

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Honey. My first was a summer baby and it won't be that bad. Don't listen to the people that want to be rude and tell you that it's going to be hard because of the summer. That means you can wear shorts and skirts and tank tops. So that's not bad at all. Plus the pool. You can be in the pool until you are 34 weeks. I'm here for you. Cause I've gone through it.

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No need to be rude ever. It's never the answer. People say stupid stuff all the time. Keep positive for baby. Baby doesn't need that negative vibes. I'd rather them say (and believe me they have) it will be a long summer than- "damn I thought you were due any day you're huge!" It's my first idk if it's urs but I won't know ANY difference in summer baby or winter baby- summer is hot but we get our little ones just in time for all the fun holidays!!! ⭐️⭐️

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Just brush it off and move on. It's not worth getting worked up over.

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I'm totally rude when people are ride like that.

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What's funny is if you have your baby around Christmas or January they'd say the opposite 😂 people are stupid just don't pay them any attention.

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I was literally pregnant all summer with my son in 2013 from feb-oct😦 i live in cali so you can imagine the heat with no air conditioner in a room with fake windows that dont open. Thankfully my mom bought us one when i got bigger. 
My daughter i was pregnant from sept- may so all winter😄

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I've had people tell me my child will be a handful because of there sign "oh it's a girl and she's a Leo she gonna be crazy " or down play my pregnancy because this is my fourth every time I have a child it will be a celebration and the whole thing about marriage those people seem rude as hell most people who would say things like that don't have a good relationship or marriage themselves so their putting their insecurities on your relationship people want others to be just as unhappy as they are

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Easy answer. Ppl are idiots! Just laugh off those fools! I'm jealous of your due date. One I think being pregnant in the summer would be fun! Get to roam around in practically nothing with your beautiful belly out! Shameless!! :) I'm have a Christmas baby for the second time! I can't seem to get away from Dec/Jan. good luck and no worries. Also, anyone saying crap like that to your hubby should be ppl he no longer associates with...ain't no body got time for that. Ok now I'm done :)

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