So my baby's father hasn't been a part of my pregnancy at all. I didn't expect him to, we were only dating 2 months when I found out I was pregnant, and I told him regardless of his feelings towards the situation I was going to have this baby. Since then, the only thing he contributes is negative words. He constantly brings up the fact that this was MY decision and I should have had an abortion and everything would be easier for him. He tells me things about my character being bad, how he doesn't want to be friends, and how he doesn't feel responsible financially since we aren't together. None of this hurts my feelings too much, but even with all of his negativity he insists that he wants to be a "good father". My son will have my last name, and I'll be the only one on the birth certificate. As of right now, I don't speak to him bc our last conversation consisted of him bringing up the abortion topic once again, and at 7 mo pregnant I refuse to tolerate that type of verbal abuse. This man is basically a stranger, but I'm just not sure what to do about him once my son is born. I don't trust him, but am I obligated to give him time with my son JUST because he's biologically the father? I don't need him financially, and my mother has agreed to be my nanny, so I literally don't need him for anything and the amount of disrespect towards me and my unborn son seems too much to tolerate. I'm torn as what to do about this situation because I want to do what's best for my son. Thoughts??