Okay so last night my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time ( we have been together for a year, we were just waiting cause he was a bit nervous.) Not only was it our first time, it was his first time having sex ever. But half way through sexy time(lol) he went flaccid. He says it was because he got nervous and self conscious because he couldn't get it in when we changed positions... Granted I believe him but it made me feel self conscious. Has this happened to any of you ladies before with a serious partner? If so how did you deal with it?