Ok I'm super frustrated. This is my third and last baby. I have a 8 yr old boy and a 4 yr old girl and I'm pregnant(26 weeks) w another boy. I've had this boys name picked out since before I knew my daughter was a girl. So 4 years ago, had my daughter been a boy her name would've been what I'm naming this baby. Well now all of the sudden, my cousin who was due two weeks after me, is suddenly due on my due date(9/17) and now using the same middle name as us. I don't remember ever telling her this middle name and I know it's just a middle name. I wasn't telling anyone the name until he's born but now I'm frustrated and really loved our name but now am having second doubts because I want a different name than her. This is also her first. I'm not trying to be silly or petty but just want a third party to help me think this our clearly. Thanks ladies.