I suffered a miscarriage at 3 months and I went through it by myself because I thought if I bleeding stopped then the baby was still there. And my grandma had gotten a few items for me and I also bought a few things myself. I finally told her I had a miscarriage and she came to my house banged on my door because she was mad I couldn't tell her. And she took everything away from me. Even the stuff I got. All I have left is an outfit and blanket I had to hide so no one could take it away from me. She said I was making it seem like my baby was never real but I'm the one trying to make him still seem real. She even said she would call the cops on me if I didn't give her the stuff she has gotten and then my husbands mom instead of being there for her son said out baby was fake. And then she sent my grandma to come get the stroller she had gotten. If she has the balls to say my baby wasn't real the she sure has the balls to come get her own shit. I'm trying to mourn my baby but everyone else wants it to seek like he never happened. I'm so heart broke and I'm trying to be here and be strong for my husband but they make me feel like I want to end it all. I know I don't really want too I'm just so depressed and they aren't helping it. My grandma said she couldn't see why I couldn't talk to her about things since I've lived with her my whole life. But I could never talk to her about anything. When she first found it I had sex I was 15 and instead of talking to me about it she yelled and hit me. When my grandpa was depressed and tried to kill himself she said it was just for show and then he really did kill himself. When my uncle said he was gay she didn't let him be himself and made him feel alone. I don't know how to half losing a baby and I know I'm not doing it well but taking everything away that meant so much to me isn't how you handle it.  I know that for sure.