Today I woke up with cramping pain and a stabbing sensation in my back. I was supposed to get on a plane and fly back home. Well I knew something wasn't right. I had started nuvaring the 3 weeks ago and had cramping. Assumed it was from the nuvaring. My doctors never did any testing before my birth control...today I lost a baby I never even knew I was pregnant with. I had irregular periods and the doctor even told me I had to see a fertility specialist. Today I saw my 12 weeks and 4 day old baby...it's so heartbreaking...