So I've been married 5 years been together since high school. Have an 11yr old together. I desperately want another baby!! I've waited long enough and he keeps saying it's just not time!! Wth we are now in our mid 30s and I simply can not wait. we love each other deeply and I know getting pregnant even when he might not think its time will become the perfect time. I've been off birth control for about 2yrs telling him he's responsible cause I'm ready!!!! Had a miscarriage a few yrs ago do to some health problems. And I cried  still do I wanted that baby... Doc has told me that I would have to stay in bed 1st few months to make sure baby sticks. I know he doesn't want to see me suffer again but I will be ok trying is better  anyways Well, here it comes... Might sound childish, but shit lol What if I collect the sperm from the condom?? Would that be so terrible to do? Kind of scared to do this. Just because we have such a good relationship and trust. I don't even know if it's possible to get pregnant off sperm that's been in a condom? I think I just needed to vent lol ahhhhh nite girls thanks for reading!