How does this happen!?!? 😢

Kara • Trying to conceive baby #2. One amazing little boy, and 3 angels watching over us. 🙏🏼 👼🏼👼🏼👼🏼
Woke up I'm officially 3 days late. I took a test this morning, and I had a faint positive! I've never been so excited in my whole life!! We have been trying for about 6 months now so this is great! And it being Fathers Day, I couldn't wait to tell him! We were both so excited!! ..... THEN something horrible happened, I started my period tonight!! How does that even happen! I was so upset, angry, and embarrassed that I shared this news only to disappoint him and myself. Ugh! Has this happened to anyone?
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Ja

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It happened to me and my partner with our last pregnancy. We found out on the Monday and I miscarried on the Thursday. He was over the moon when I told him he would be a dad and devastated when we lost it. This time around he has been so emotionless it hurts but I guess he just doesn't want to emotionally invest himself incase something goes wrong even though we are over the halfway point now.

Ka

Kara • Jun 20, 2016
Oh wow. That's is awhile, but at least you are on your way now!! Which is awesome!!

Ja

Jade • Jun 20, 2016
it took us 3 years unfortunately but I guess that it wasn't supposed to happen before then. best of luck to you

Ka

Kara • Jun 20, 2016
It definitely hurts! So how long did it take to get your BFP again?! AF is here now and I'm still taking my vitamins and hoping it helps.

Da

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It happened to me last month. I even went as far as doing a blood test on a Monday, AF came on Wednesday and my doctor called me on Friday to congratulate me because my blood work came back 😔 I had to tell her AF came and then go get MORE blood work done. I'm so sorry I know how you feel 💕

Ka

Kara • Jun 20, 2016
That's horrible! It's such an exhausting feeling. Especially since we have been trying for awhile now. I just don't understand how it happens so easy for others. But God has a plan I guess. It's hard to stick with that in my head with all these BFP floating around

Ja

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Yes, it happened to me last month. I had two faint FRER tests and a "yes" on my FR digital test. Two days later, I started my period. I was devastated & attributed it to being a "chemical pregnancy". I'm sorry for your loss. I'm praying next month will be it for you. 

Ka

Kara • Jun 20, 2016
Thank you that means a lot! I really hope you get your BFP soon!! Keep me updated!

Ja

Jayde • Jun 20, 2016
What comforted me was a friend reminding me that there wasn't anything I could do or did to prevent or cause it. It's our body's way of ridding it from a non viable egg. It'll happen. For us both!

Ka

Kara • Jun 20, 2016
I'm sorry to hear that as well!. It's such a hurtful thing to feel! I mean I know I wasn't far along but still! The excitement we both had is hard to swallow now. I hope your upcoming time is it for you!! Baby Dust Doll!!

Ay

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At least you didn't do an elaborate announcement. I have seen that happen a lot. Whenever I see a women do a big thing....

Ka

Kara • Jun 20, 2016
Yes! I'm glad I didn't either. So disappointing