So Yesterday was my birthday, and my boyfriend usually plays video games all night. But he went to eat lunch yesterday and then my family all hung out by the pool. He didn't go to the pool cause he didn't want to. Which I was kind of upset about because it's my birthday you know? Is it bad that I'm upset because he barely spent any time with me? And then when I get home he starts to do like he's going to play video games and I had been trying to lead sex on but we were about to eat and so I just tried to hint at it. (We haven't had sex in about a month and a half) because he plays video games and doesn't pay attention to me. So yesterday I got upset and he knew it but I was really trying not to go off on him because it's my freaking birthday you know? Is that too needy? What do I do? I feel like I can't talk to him cause he'll act like its wrong for me to feel that way.