My boyfriend and I are both 21 and have been dating for 3 years. We really want to move in together, but my mom wants us to wait until we are married and would probably disown me. What should I do? :(

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Parents need to realize that there comes a time where their kids grow up & have to learn to be adults on their own. Maybe it'll be a mistake, maybe it'll work out. That's for YOU to learn & figure out on your own. Go ahead & do it.

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my dad is the same way. i cannot move in with my boyfriend at any time but i can live with a group of girls. smh. i say, it's your life so you do you. but parents can be extreme so i would tread carefully. i know what it is like to have a mom threaten to disown you.

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I was 18 when i moved out of my moms house and into my dads and then into my husbands my mom hates my husband with a passion we have been together 5 years married 2 and have our son and a baby on the way they will never get along but they do tolerate each other you are an adult and can make your own choices she will be mad but theres nothing she can do

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My mother wasn't a fan of my husband when we were just dating. So when we got engaged I told her and we moved in together a few months later.

She had felt the same way, but things usually end up fine.

She'll be pissed for a little while, but eventually she'll be okay and you'll live with the love of your life.

:)

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My parents were the same way and were really mad when i made the decision to do so, but now our family is closer than ever and we've almost been married 2 years. You're her daughter, nothing should be able to break that love and bond.

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my mom is the same way and me mentioning my bf and i moving in together when were older she gas a heart attack. but you're 21 and have been dating for a while and really needs to get over it. being your mother i doubt she could jst not talk to you. shell still love you

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Ultimately it's your life. She loves you and would want to see her daughter so she wouldn't just never talk to you again. What are your morals and are you only concerned about her opinion?

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Well i say what are your views. I mean if hers are religious and that is why she wants you to be married first , you were probably brought up that way. I mean i could tell you my views but they are exactly that my views. Only you can decide at this point. If you want to move out be prepared for her not to like it and the aftermath/consequences of that decision. I wish you all the best.

My boyfriend and I are both 21 and have been dating for 3 years. We really want to move in together, but my mom wants us to wait until we are married and would probably disown me. What should I do? :(

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