I'm 19, closer to 20 though and I've been TTC for 2-3 months now. Unfortunately, my boyfriend is a little hesitant to go forward with it because he thinks it's too soon for us and is worried I'm a little young and I won't live if I have a baby first (like doing uni work and travel and stuff like that). The most frustrating part for me though is that he has a daughter, got his first girlfriend pregnant when he was 17, so while he does know what he's talking about, he has this gorgeous little girl running around the house doing all these adorable things like snuggling up to her father and the beautiful I love you'd and the joy he gets tucking her into bed every night... He has a family with her, which I feel very excluded from because I'm not her mum, I'm just a girlfriend on the side of his larger commitments. He has exactly what I want and it's all laid out in front of me every day and I don't think he knows how it effects me... I really don't know what to do here. I don't want to trick him into getting me pregnant and I definitely can't ask him to tone down the affection with his daughter, that's just insane, they're absolutely beautiful together, but at the same time I'm just getting more and more frustrated with the situation... Help me, anyone? Please?