To the Women of Eve

Yes, you will do what you want, but you need to understand actions may have consequences. Big ones. The kind of consequences that can affect you for the rest of your life, whether it's a STD or a child. Every time you have sex, you are taking a risk (Even with condoms and the pill because both become less effective with improper usage). That's not too dissuade anyone, but it's a fact. It can be fun, but it's still a risk. A risk that you may not be prepared for whether you are 13 or 30. However, it's much easier to be prepared when you are older because you have more time to save money and grow into who you are. If you think you are ready for a kid now, you'll still be ready when you are older. What's the rush?

I know dealing with hormones and peer pressure can be tough, but it's doable. In terms of the hormones you can try masturbating. And when it comes to peer pressure, honestly it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you except yourself. Your teenage years are a time to explore and learn about yourself and what you may want to do with your life. Find an activity, or activities, you love and do them. It may even influence the career you try to pursue. Finding those activities can be a lot harder when you are working full-time, paying bills, and you are ultimately responsible for yourself. 

Use this time to grow as a person as much as possible. You have the rest of your life to have sex, but you are only a teen once. CHERISH IT! (And if you are going to have sex anyway PLEASE use a condom and get on the pill if at all possible. And don't forget to take your pill everyday)