She's a sweet old lady. And she loves me, very very dearly. I usually call her on my way home from work so I can have some company during my hour plus commute home. Yesterday, out of the blue, she was talking about how her friend just found out she's going to be a great grandma. She told me she hopes she doesn't become one soon. But I'm pregnant and haven't told her yet. She went on and on about how people should live their lives first and she hopes I wait a few years before I start having kids. It broke my heart and I didn't have the heart to tell her I just found out I was after trying for a few months. I may be young, I'm 23, but I e been with my husband almost ten years and married for three! What do you guys do in these situations to shake off the judgement?