Whos had a misccarige?

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Tell me how to be strong all I ever wanted is this baby he was my hope and joy my everything I don't think ill be able to get through this with my husband away it's just me and it's so hard please help me get through this please

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Find someone you know that has had a miscarriage and talk to them.  Glow is great, but it is more comforting to talk to someone in person and get a hug.  I also started a journal to record my thoughts and emotions as different situations came up. Sometimes it helps to write out all the hurt and questions.

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My miscarriage was absolutely the darkest time of my life. Hubby and I had been trying for 5 months, were so excited, we told everyone at 6 weeks and then lost our angel the night we announced. It was devastating. It's been 6 months, and I think about my angel every single day. It gets more bearable, but what helped me get through it was finding a support system. My mother-in-law had one, as well as my sister-in-law, so I began to confide in them with the feelings I had. I started seeing a therapist and was diagnosed with anxiety/depression and decided to get medicated after having dark thoughts of self harm and suicide. It's been a long road to recovery, but I'm feeling happier every day and can think of my angel without feeling uncontrollable sadness. It's so hard, but it gets better. And now, being 6 weeks pregnant, I still think of my angel and hope everything works with my little poppyseed. Just take it one day at a time. Don't know if you're religious, but I pray for you and all others who are experiencing this loss because it is so hard. Hang in there, you can do this!

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I has two losses before I had my son. I learnt that the hard times made the good times that much more special.

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Talking about my loss helped me get through it.  My sister and I both went through losses so we talk about it all the time.  It's hard but it will get easier 😭

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Especially right after, it seems like nothing can make you feel any better. I lost our first pregnancy this year in January at 10 weeks and it was one of the hardest things I ever went through. Although my husband was there for me, he didn't connect like I did and there's just nothing like losing a baby for a mother.... All I can say is it does get easier. I still think about our first when I'm sitting here almost 20 weeks with our rainbow. Although I love her soooo much, I still think about who our first baby was and keep them close to my heart. I don't talk about it to people except mothers who have gone through the same thing. I just don't feel like they know the pain unless it happens personally. Hang in there.

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At first it feels as if your heart has been ripped out of your chest well for me at least that is how it felt. My husband and I tried for over a year then a week after we found out we were pregnant I miscarried. For days I felt like all I could do is lay in bed and cry and ask what did I do to lose a baby. I also asked what could I have done differently to prevent this. In reality it's not your fault these things just happen in my case I got leukemia and that is what caused my miscarriage. In the beginning it is hard because I wanted to have a big family and when I miscarried I felt like my dreams got shattered. I wanted a second baby so much and then I kept seeing my friends or family having baby announcements online and I would sit there and cry because it hurt. But after my diagnosis I accepted the fact that it would be a long time before I could have more children. 3 weeks after my diagnosis I found out I was pregnant and I am 28 weeks and me and baby are doing good. Best wishes.

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