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My boyfriend has always felt a way when I wear certain things because I have a "nice butt". Now I have a baby bump and a booty bump certain dresses I put on he becomes outraged and insecure and "forbids" me from wearing them. I am proud and happy to show my baby bump off and is it my fault I have extra junk in the trunk? I have the most respect for him but what should I do?

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My husband hates when I wear my wife beaters. He says that it's not what a mother and wife should wear. He's super conservative... around the house I'm in booty shorts and a Cami... he doesn't approve of jeans and t shirts that display my belly. I tell him that  until he is the sole provider of our finances and incubates a human in record breaking heat, then he can tell me what I can wear.

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Your guy sounds insecure.

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Tell him he needs to get over it and controlling behavior will not be tolerated. You may have respect for him but it sounds like he doesn't respect you. Just bc you're together doesn't mean you have control over each other. My husband would never do that he is perfectly happy with letting me be who I am and is proud to have me no matter what I'm wearing. That is how it should be in my opinion. In my experience that kind of behavior escalates into more controlling issues as time goes on and for me even turned into abuse.

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He sounds rude 😟 Good luck trying to hide the bump further along. He doesn't have to deal with dressing with a human in his stomach. You dress to be comfortable!

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Lmao.. I would understand if u were going around dressed like a tramp or something. .but for him to "forbid" u putting a dress on because u have a baby in ur belly and junk in the trunk..is INSANE!  If MY SO ever "forbid " me from wearing a dress because my bubble ass and baby bump were visible..is would be laughing my bubble butt off, and go back to what I was doing. ..
Ridiculous! He was ok with ur ass before becoming pregnant but now,  because u ALSO have a baby bump, he finds that "too much"  LOL!

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Wear what you find comfortable! A woman's body has curves and it can't be helped may as well embrace them and be proud.

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