I found this article and wanted to share this with you. If like me you've got kids that are at the age of going to a lot of parties it's good to be prepared. This article was written by a lady who was sexually abused when she was young but she felt like she couldn't speak up as her parents told her to "be a good girl and do what she's told" which made her evaluate what questions she asks her own kids when she picks them up. Here are the questions she asks so thought you ladies might interested in doing it too. I always asked my daughter "were you a good girl" and "did you use your manners" but I'll be using these questions from now on.