Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right?!?!?

Question

So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I have my own apartment and he lives with his parents. 
I am so lonely living by myself, I want my boyfriend to move in with me but he always says he is just not ready.
I don't know what to do anymore, I just can't stand living alone any longer. And I want to be with my boyfriend, but what the point of even having a boyfriend if he doesn't want to be with you groe with you, help you? What the point?? It hurts me that after a year he still doesnt want to live with me.

Answer

That is up to you..are you willing to break things off with him because he doesn't want to move in with you? Or can you wait longer? I wonder if he's not ready to take the next step in the relationship, or if it's a financial decision. But you shouldn't move in with someone out of loneliness. Living together is a big deal.

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wait till hes ready, itll be much better in the long run. a few years back i tried to get my husband(bf at the time) to move in with me before he was ready & we had alot of issues. he got homesick & then became angry for awhile. once he went back home for a few months he was then ready to move in & there was a huge difference. 
just take a breath, it has nothing to do with how much he loves you, hes just not ready. stay calm & have faith

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If he isn't ready and it concerns you that much I'd ask why he feels that way and respect his decision to stay at home for now. Having him move in just because you're lonely is not the best thing to do in my opinion. I can't help but partially side with him because I'm someone who enjoys my alone time and would rather live by myself than with my BF at the moment. That does not mean that I don't love him, but I like a certain amount of space in my relationship to keep it healthy. But tell him how you are feeling for sure. Hope you get this figured out 😊

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What else does he say besides he's not ready? Why isn't he ready? Is it because of money? Does he see a future with you? The issue is deeper than the words "I'm not ready". If he's just not ready right now that's fine but I'd make sure you're on the right path with this guy!

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Does he have a religious reason why he may not want to move in that would be a big one for me... How old are you and him?

Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right?!?!?

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