My mom is driving me insane! I have two boys; 12 and 7 and she has NEVER been involved with them. She's not a grandma. She blames working 50 hours a week on not being involved with them years ago and she says now that they're older they don't want anything to do with her. Can you blame them? My mother and I have never really been close. I moved out at 18 and never looked back. Anyway, now that I'm expecting my third, she keeps saying "I KNOW it's a girl!" And she keeps saying that after this baby comes she wants to take it for weekends, etc. I'm really hurt over this. 1. You're not taking my baby. and 2. if you can't have anything to do with my other children you're not getting another shot with this baby.