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I'm 21 and I just had my first BF we were friends for a year before getting together. And we been together for almost three months and he is asking for sex! I'm still a Virgin though and I would love to do it with him but I'm not sure he really likes me, I think all he wants from me is sex and to be the first one. I  thinking of breaking up with him and I'm sure if he really likes me he won't let me go and will wait until I'm ready

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Breaking up with him shouldn't show you that he's the one. That's just playing games and I never think that's a good idea. If he does like you then he would wait. If he doesn't want to wait then he is welcome to use the door to walk right on out but please don't play games x

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If you're planning on breaking up with him you shouldn't have sex with him??

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If you're not ready, you're not ready. But communication is key. Sit down and have a serious conversation with him about how you feel, otherwise this is all a guessing game and that isn't fair to either of you. Let him know how you feel and pay attention not just to his words but his body language during the entire conversation. Best of luck.

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If you feel like you are not ready that's the number 1 reason not to do it, 2 if you feel like he just wants sex or you are questioning your relationship with him definitely do not do it. I can understand the feeling of finally wanting to have sex but you are 2q and that's a long time to hold on to your virginity  (especially  in 2016). So I would say wait until you feel like your ready and you feel like it's the right guy

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It doesn't matter who it is. If you're not ready the. You're not ready.

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