I'm not trying to be mean. Dont get me wrong I am really happy for those ladies who have been trying only a month and get their BFP but it still hurts. Me and the DH have been trying for 20 months I know its not long and some of you ladies have been trying for years but it still hurts to get a BFN and AF show up every month. I just wish I could have been one of the lucky ones to get a BFP after one month of trying. It took 4 months with my daughter and a month with my son. I pray all you ladies who are still ttc this month get your BFP and GOD blesses you with a little bundle of joy.