Has anyone read this book by Susan Patton, she is Princeton Mom.  I just bought the book yesterday and I'm loving it and hating it. I love how traditional it is about focusing on finding someone, getting married and pregnant.  It says you should spend 75% of your time on relationships and 25% on professional development which I agree, I have a career and it's cool but it doesn't matter much to me.  I disagree about not dating interracial or interfaith because I only interracially date.  Idk this book makes me feel worse about my situation than I did before I know it's for undergraduates but I'm fresh out of grad school that should count for something