In laws :/

Does anyone else have mom in law that just wants to be in charge and have to be apart of EVERYTHING??? Like even things that hubby and I would want to do just ourselves? I'm due in Feb and his mom.is already telling us next thanksgiving we need to stay at her house and next Christmas eve we need to spend the night at her house so we wake up at her house Christmas day with the baby? Does anyone else find that annoying or is just me