Really?!

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So the cats outa the bab about TTC I wasn't going to tell family until afterwards!! Well somehow ( dh probably) his whole side knows. That's ok I guess lol didn't want to hear so are u preggo yet? BUT THEN his bff calls on Thanksgiving to say "were pregnant!!" Ugh!!!! Ok I am happy for them they had a still born in February .sooo ya that's cool but now I feel like the pressures on!!! 7 dpo yes too early to test did it anyways bfn! So now I am frustrated!! Would be awesome to be pregnant with her....and my sis in law! K end of rant!!

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My husband told my family I didn't want them to know cause I feel like it adds pressure to because pregnant faster. Also I have factor five Leiden A clotting disorder. So I don't tell anyone if I do get pregnant until I hit the second trimester. Because I have had five miscarriages the last one was in August. I'm hoping for this month I started this month feeling it's going to be this month and now 9dpo I'm not so sure tested today bfn AF is due 12/4. 
I'm not sure why DH's would think it's okay to say anything with out talking to us 
Best of luck to you it hope you get your BFP this month baby dust

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Awww!! My husband hasn't told anyone which I'm actually really proud of him for. I didn't want to tell anyone for the exact same reason. My mil would be asking me daily if I got my period and such haha. Baby dust to you!!