So I'm on a softball league at work and I told the team I can't play (I've been playing on the team for three years) this year due to. A shoulder injury,  but obviously it's because I've got a bun in the oven.  I feel bad lying to them but I'm 6w5d so we aren't ready to tell yet.  (Our families know).  When we finally tell them you don't think they will be upset that we lied do you?