Iam currently pregnant with my 2nd child,no one knows but me. I thought my first born was a surprise this one really surprised the hell out of me. I've always been on top of my birth control,used condoms and still somehow got pregnant. Me and the father haven't really got along so he hasn't really been a part of my son's life and about over a month ago,I actually let him come around and he was doing so good and we were getting along but everything went to shit after awhile then I found out I was pregnant. Since everyone pretty much knows how my sperm donor is,I'm afraid I'll be judged for having a second child with him. My son turned 1 March 23rd,I also feel like it's too early to have another one so soon. Has anyone else had these feelings?