My husband and I are expecting our third child in November. We are over the moon by all the wonderful blessings God has given us. However my husband's older brother's wife is going behind our backs talking to my mother in law about how she's upset we are having another kid and she and her husband haven't had any (by her choice). Earlier in her life before she and her husband were together she had terminated a pregnancy and is now looking back and regretting it. I can understand that she is upset with her past decisions but what I don't appreciate is her talking about me behind my back like it my fault that I have expanded my family and she hasn't. It's not like I'm standing here saying haha I have three kids and you have none. I realize that there are some people out there who can't have children and I feel for those people everyday but she can have kids she had just chosen not to yet and that's her decision I respect that. So she should respect that I can have as many babies as I please before her if she still wants to continue to put it off.

Sorry for the rant....