I wish I had a crystal ball that would tell me when and what time I will go into labor. With the 4th coming up its hard to make plans because I do not know when or if I will go into labor. I have other children and don't want to make them stay home just because I may or may not go into labor.  We are very family oriented and enjoy getting together for holidays, I don't want to shut down plans just because I may or may not!!! Anxiety sucks as well!