I let my husband use my phone so he could watch some porn on it, because I really didn't feel like having sex and he's patiently waited almost 2 weeks. Also his phone got lost in bags while we moved, so still hunting for it. So I was like "well screw it, here use my phone cuz you're probably dying right now". But I was more amazed that he left everything in my notifications bar there. He didn't open anything at all. My unread messages were still unread. I knew he wouldn't go through my phone anyway, but still, it is always nice being reassured that you're trusted and can trust your husband too. It might seem little to some, but it meant enough to me.

*If you don't let your husband watch porn, don't tell me why I should tie my husband's balls up and tell him what he is allowed to do and not do. If your husband chooses not to watch it, then that's fine. But I don't want to hear all about how "my husband would never do that cuz I don't allow it". I'm not his mother, I'm his wife.*