Am I over reacting?

Cynthia
Soo today, I'm really pissed off with my boyfriend. 
I invited him to my brothers gf house for a cook out and when I got the invite he told me "idk I have to see what I'm doing" which I knew was an automatic no he's not willing to drive 45mins. 
BUT he's going to drive an hour away to be at his lake house with his boy. 
I dnt care about the hanging out with his friend part, but it's upsetting to me is that I have to continue to pull teeth for him to come to an event Bc of he doesn't want to drive up to me or he just doesn't want to be around ppl. We both live a distance and I drive atleast 3xs a week to him. 
I've been pushed to a corner where I wanna break up, and be with someone that is willing to do for me as I do for them.  As females we can love someone deeply but at some point we will walk away.