He basically ditched me...

Tamarra
I asked my boyfriend 3 weeks ago if I could visit him for the 4th of July to see fireworks and play with sparklers. He told me he doesn't like fireworks at all, and finds them boring...I ask 2-4 more times to see if he'd say yes and he unfortunately said no. 
Sooo today is the fourth and he is with his friends...firing fireworks and playing with sparklers...he told me he's only doing it because his friends were....and I ended the convo with him there. 
Honestly I don't think I shouldn't get so mad over a holiday but I can't help it. I'm livid! We never spent a holiday together besides our anniversary...I can't help but be upset he doesn't seem to care I'm upset either...
Am I over reacting?